A question about the second answer on this thread: Help understanding Lagrangian multipliers?
If we have a standard utility maximizing problem $$ \max_{x,y} U(x,y) $$ with the constraint $p_{x}x + p_{y}y = B$, where $p_{x}, p_{y}$ are the prices of $x,y$, and $B$ is the budget/income. The Lagriangian would work as $$ U(x,y) + \lambda(B-p_{x}x - p_{y}y) $$ and we would proceed to take partial derivatives and find critical points. My question is on the interpretation of the Lagrangian function above and specifically the multiplier $\lambda$:
1) In what way is $\lambda$ the "price we pay for not obeying our constraint"? (as one of the explanations in the linked post has it)
2) Intuitively, not mathematically, how is this equivalent to the interpretation of $\lambda$ as a "shadow price"? What exactly is a shadow price?
3) What difference does it make to $\lambda$ if our constraint was written as $p_{x}x + p_{y}y - B$ instead? (i.e. in reverse order)