Arrow's Impossibility Theorem is often presented as a negative result in graduate classes. I wonder if the 'dictator' is taken too literally. If the assumptions of the theorem hold, there exists an individual $i$ such that the social preference $\succcurlyeq$ is equivalent to $i$'s individual preferences $\succcurlyeq_i$, irregardless of the preferences of all other individuals. However, if $i$ had different preferences, they might not be the dictator, it might be another individual. It seems to me that the theorem is simply stating that someone got lucky and will get exactly what they want and not that they are literally a dictator, since with other preferences they wouldn't be.
Everyone's preferences were taken into account when the selection of dictator was made, so why is the dictator result presented as a negative finding? (see MWG, Kreps (2013), Jehle and Reny etc.)