Is deflation per se "evil"?
No, it isn't, nor is this a view modern economists have. I do not believe one could provide any reference to modern mainstream text that considers deflation as "evil".
In standard economics deflation is marketed as "evil" in the sense that it leads to a stop of consumption because consumers wait with consumption expecting prices to fall even more thus leading to a "neverending" downwards spiral in the total economy.
This is simply not true. A standard and widely used macroeconomic textbooks such as Mankiw Macroeconomics, Blanchard et al Macroeconomics, Romer Advanced Macroeconomics, Woodford Interest and prices all have large dense chapters on inflation and none of these labels deflation as "evil".
Next, the second part is also not true. Deflation has two effects. First, it has intertemporal substitution effect where it incentivizes people to consume less today, but also to save more today (which boosts incomes and output through more investment spending, which can either fully or partially offset the drop in consumption). Second, it has it a wealth (Pigou) effect, as it increases people's wealth and this expand consumption both in the present and in the future (see Mankiw Macroeconomics 9th ed pp 354).
So one cannot a priory say that deflation leads to fall in consumption, nor it necessarily lead to "never-ending" downward spirals. Economic spirals are not automatically never-ending, it depends whether the series is divergent or convergent. A convergent infinite series, will not end in a forever spiral. Only divergent series would.
Deflation is primarily problematic when economy is in a deep recessions and less problematic in milder recessions (see Atkeson and Kehoe 2004), where investment becomes unresponsive to extra saving, but since macroeconomically $I=S$ this imbalance is resolved through fall income when S increases such that $I=S$ because you are now saving from less income. This is called paradox of thrift or saving (see Blanchard et al Macroeconomics 3rd ed pp 53).
Moreover, because of sticky wages or prices, deflation, in the short-run, leads to above equilibrium levels of unemployment and output gap, but these close in medium to long-run when prices become flexible.
While this way of thinking has historical references,
I do not believe there are any historical references for what you describe. First, this kind of value laden language, calling phenomena evil, is not really used in economics for about last 100 or even more. You would at best find that kind of language in very old tracts. Moreover, there isn't anyone in economic history (see Brue and Grant History of Economic Thought 8th ed) who would think deflation always results in never-ending spirals.
, I wonder: if we would normalize deflation, wouldn't it lead to more cyclical economies with minor deflation cycles?
I am not sure how you define deflation cycle, deflation would lead to deeper recessions according to modern models with more unemployment (e.g. see discussion in Mankiw Macroeconomics 9th ed ch 12).
Economy itself is one of the only aspects in life which seem unnatural, not obeying to ups and downs, cyclical motions but just a constant upwards flow.
There isn't anything unnatural about constant growth. In nature, volume of universe always increases, entropy of universe also always increases, time seems to flow in one direction so, so no matter how you measure it, passage of time also constantly increases.
This being, said there are no economic laws that say economy has to constantly grow. Economic output is primarily determined by technology. A typical production function you will find in economics will take following form $F = AK^{\beta}L^{1-\beta}$ with $0<\beta<1$, where $A$ is stock of knowledge/technology, $K$ is stock of capital, and $L$ stock of labor, more factors such as land or human capital (education) can be added.
Now, as long as there is no limit to the amount of knowledge humankind can generate, there is no practical limit to economic growth. So far our civilization did not hit the celling of the possible knowledge, and moreover, during last 200 years our technology/knowledge stock rapidly expanded, so we observe in data continuous growth without any hint of stopping. However, decline is possible when knowledge is lost (like during the fall of Roman Empire) or when the institutions that precipitate generation and diffusion of knowledge, and also production in general (e.g. institutions that lead to efficient allocation of capital and labor) are lost (e.g. see Acemoglu & Robinson, Why Nations Fail?).
Moreover, the "upward flow" is far from constant. Economies are constantly being perturbed by shocks and although output does trend upwards, there is great amount of jumps and downs around that trend. This is especially true for output of individual countries, since for the world as a whole some of the jumps and downs in output average out (see world bank data).
Deflation, if it would be more normalized, could theoretically counter-effect a stagflation thus impulsing the economy earlier and/or avoid crisis in some economical sectors.
I do not know what kind of theory are you referring to and I do not believe there is such a theory. Stagflations are typically caused by shocks to aggregate supply (see ibid 455-458). Deflation doesn't really affect supply side, but it affects demand side. I don't see how can you argue that creating negative demand shock somehow helps to resolve negative supply shock. Moreover, I can't even imagine how this could be practically done since these shocks are typically idiosyncratic.
Stagflation post pandemics lead to a re prioritizing in consumption anyway: People didn't stop consuming but they had to focus on essential spending, leading to a preference on essential or cheap (china or worse quality) articles.
There wasn't really a stagflation post pandemic, because US economy (assuming you are talking about US) grew at solid pace after the pandemic. The stagflation indicators showed some signs of possible stagflation, but then the indicators fell sharply since inflation came down. In US according to data there were so far only 2 periods of stagflation, one at the beginning and one at the end of 70s (see stagflation indicator for US). Hence, if you are talking about US you are talking from false premises. If you talk about EU, there the problem is lack of competitiveness and effective investment into R&D and its diffusion (see Draghi's Report).
A slight deflation could have helped to avoid closing down of lots of smaller businesses which sell non-essential goods or cannot compete with big businesses which can lower margins.
I don't understand based on what you come to this conclusion. To my best knowledge there is no economic theory, mainstream or heterodox, which would make this claim.
Also in nowadays most well-being societies it's unrealistic that consumption comes to a full stop: people cannot afford to wait forever to buy bread, fuel, buy new machines if repair costs are too high, etc. They do not want to lower their standard if avoidable. Also people are accustomed to a state of well being so in most societies they buy new shoes or clothes if the old ones have holes anyway, because of social status or simply because their being accustomed.
First, well-being society is not really a term that is used, so its not clear what exactly you mean by that. Second, as was already explained, there aren't any economists who would claim that as a result of deflation consumption would stop. In fact even in basic economic models we typically always include autonomous consumption (i.e. consumption that will occur irrespective of factors such as deflation). This seems to be a respond to some sort of straw man argument.
Hence, this does not really change anything. Economists do already acknowledge that portion of consumption is autonomous (e.g. see ibid 336). Economic models that show deflation supresses output and employment during recessions already factor in the fact that some consumption will always occur.
So from that behavioral economics point of view: would a slight and short deflation not be better than a longer stagflation for economy?
First, what you talk about has nothing to do with behavioral economics. Behavioral economics studies how deviation from rational (i.e. consistent) behavior affects economic outcomes. An example, of behavioral economics applied to this problem would be to study how hyperbolic discounting (inconsistency between present and future preferences) affects consumption under deflation.
To my best knowledge, there simply isn't a behavioral macroeconomic theory that would say something more on deflation than standard macroeconomics, although behavioral macroeconomics is a relatively new field. Nonetheless, in your question you are not really using behavioral model (or if you do the question does not show that).
Second, that is a false choice fallacy. There isn't really a solid theory or empirical evidence showing that slight and short deflation can prevent stagflation. That is like asking wouldn't it be better if earth was perfect sphere rather than oblate spheroid? If we would be allowed to choose between the two you can make aesthetic arguments for sphere, but its not like we have choice. Similarly, there isn't any evidence for deflation/stagflation trade-off.
In a thought experiment where this trade-off exists, the answer would depend on policy maker's or people's preferences. A priory without examining preferences there isn't an objective answer by which one of the option is better. But since this is a false choice, this point is moot.
Couldn't be that minor deflation cycles (which I believe would be much more limited than 50 or 100 years ago) would impulse the economy faster and avoid other disasters as higher unemployment or stronger shifts in the company landscapes?
Again, within modern economics there isn't really any evidence for such trade-off. Also, deflation will lead to higher unemployment in deep demand driven recessions, less so in mild ones as discussed above.