In the problem set 2 of Rubinsteins Microeconomics (btw is there a comparably nice written book on macroeconomics?) there is the following question: Let $\succ_n$ be the preference relations defined on $\mathbb{R}^2_+$ by the utility $x_1^n + x_2^n$. Let the preference relations $\succ$ be defined by the utility $\max\{x_1, x_2\}$. Show that $\succ_n$ converge to $\succ$.
Preference relations are said to converge if for $a \succ b$ we have that $a \succ_m b$ for sufficiently large $m$. I am indeed able to prove that.
Now w.l.o.g. $x_1 = \max\{x_1, x_2\}$ and $y_1 = \max\{y_1, y_2\}$. Assuming that $x_1 = y_1$ we have $x \sim y$. But the only case when $x \sim_m y$ is when also $x_2 = y_2$. In other cases we would have either $x \succ_m y$ or $y \succ_m x$ for all $m$ (depending on $x_2$ and $y_2$, the "smaller component". These are actually lexicographic preferences!)
Is there a reason that the convergence of preference relations is done in this way to ignore such subtilities? In my opinion we should have that $\succeq = \lim_{n \to \infty} \succeq_n$ iff $a \succeq b = \lim_{n \to \infty} a \succeq_n b$.